How to Make Love Longer - Tips on Intimacy

  OK guys, you have tried everything else, and nothing seems to work for you. You want to make love longer but you keep coming short of the goal. You're frustrated. Your woman is frustrated. Your self-esteem, self-confidence and masculinity are teetering on the edge of disaster. Before you throw in the towel and give up on yourself or your relationship, I want to encourage you to read on to discover how you can make love longer in a way that will make your woman proud of you.

You can forget about all of those pills, pumps, supplements, creams and fly by night pie in the sky promises that the hustlers have been peddling to you for years. They're a waste of your time and your money and seldom if ever do they provide any results whatsoever. So, hold on to your wad of cash, put your wallets away and forget about spending a dime, because I'm going to show you a way that you can make love longer and it isn't going to cost you one red cent. That's right, I'm going to tell you how you can make love longer and it is absolutely FREE. It will cost you nothing, zilch, nada!

First of all, you need to stop thinking so much about being a stud that can pleasure his woman hour upon blissful hour. In fact, you need to stop thinking about sex! Can you do that? Because, making love is not about the physical intercourse, it is about intimate intercourse.

OK… there you go again. Get your head out of the gutter. Intercourse is not sex!

Say what?

That's right - intercourse isn't sex. Look it up in the dictionary. Intercourse is about communication, interaction, association AND contact. I'll talk more about that "contact" in a moment.

Now, I know you might be just a little confused about this, because if you're like most guys you know little to nothing about intimacy. It's a difficult thing for guys; we just weren't wired that way. So, let me help you out here.

You also need to know that when it comes to communicating that your woman will generally talk circles around you. She'll be going on and on and you'll be wondering sometimes if she is ever going to stop. But, there is a very simple reason why this happens and it has to do with the way that women are wired differently than us men. You see, women, in general, have a much larger vocabulary than men. In other words, they use more words when they talk then men do. In fact, their vocabulary is usually 20 to 30% larger than a man's is.

What is she talking about? Now, don't just listen to her words either, listen to where her words are coming from. That is very important to her. What is she feeling? What are her fears, her insecurities, her hopes and dreams?

Now, the next part is very, very important. It requires responding to her. That means you get to talk back to her. And, guys, this means using more than just a couple of guttural grunts and grumbles. She needs to know that you have really been listening to her, that what she is talking to you about is important to you because it is very important to her. This is called verbal intercourse and it can heighten your love life like nothing else.

As she begins to open up to you, validate her. That means you need to show her that you believe in her, support her, encourage her and respect her. Sounds tough, huh? Maybe. But, the problem is if you don't have these things right, chances are you'll lose the game.

And, what is the game? Do you remember?

Love! It's all about love. Loving her deeply with your heart and your mind, not just your body.

When a woman knows that you are capable of understanding her deepest needs, wants and desires she will open up to you in ways that you can hardly imagine. And… as you continue to validate her through communication she will want to make contact with you.